Sissies/Femboys/Cross Dressing – A person (male or female) who engages in being feminized as a kink. This can also include being humiliated in order to reach a different emotional or mental state.

A Sissy is submissive to their partner. Sissification (sometimes called Feminisation or Bimbofication  is a kink wherein a submissive has a strong desire to be  transformed (sometimes by another in a ‘forceful’ manner) into a feminine, sexier version of themselves. As opposed to crossdressing, which is simply the act of wearing the clothes and accessories typically associated with the opposing gender and not necessarily sexual in nature, Sissification is decidedly sexual.

A sissy desires to be hyper-sexualized, to be made into a beautiful, sexy woman. They want to feel sexy, to feel pretty, to feel desired by others. They usually want to feel emasculated by a more dominant individual. A sissy may be masculine in behavior and appearance in their everyday life, but that changes quickly when stockings are worn, butts plugged and cocks caged. They often fantasize about having their masculine self destroyed (due to it being perceived as inferior) so that they may become experts at pleasuring their superior male or female.

Sissies hold a lot in common with the average sub (I would even argue that all sissies are subs); they like to be under the control of a competent, knowledgeable, sexually deviant partner who is superior in one or multiple ways, they like being told what to do, they like to please others, and they are often not submissive in their daily life.

Each sissy will have a different “style”, based on broadstereotypical looks worn by the women they encounter in the world or various media. The most common styles for sissies are glamorous, prissy princess, goth/emo, sporty, classy/formal, maid, and prostitute/sex slave. Each style follows a certain set of rules for achieving it’s look. Some advanced sissies will wear different styles for different occasions, though most sissies tend to stay within one style that is particularly stimulating for them.

A point of confusion for some is the relationship between being a sissy and being trans. As I understand it, trans people got shafted by nature and are born into the opposite gender while sissies are born in the right body, but desire to be remade into a sexual fetish. You can be a sissy with no desire to be trans.

To be a sissy, you need to want to be sexualized, to be made more feminine.